Spread Kindness and Show Thanks
As the holiday season launches it is so easy to get caught up in the long list of items needed to be taken care of by busy parents. There is getting the house ready for the holidays. Presents to buy. Planning for holiday travel. School programs needing your support, etc.! There is a ton to do. In these busy times, as parents, it’s important to guide our children on how to spread kindness and show thanks. Why not try to spread some kindness giving others (and your own family) something positive to focus on? There are benefits, a few of which are outlined below, for both you and your kids as well as those on the receiving end of your kind gestures. As Flora Edwards said, “In helping others, we help ourselves, for whatever good we give out completes the circle and comes back to us.”
Being Kind Makes You Happier
Being nice to others doesn’t just benefit them, it give you a boost too. If you have ever been able to help out a friend or a stranger in a time of need you know that being helpful actually makes you feel happy. Doing nice things for others boosts your serotonin. “Serotonin is the neurotransmitter that gives us the feeling of satisfaction and well-being.” says Lara Honos-Webb Ph.D. in Psychology Today “Most of the antidepressant medications work by increasing the amount of serotonin available to your brain. All of this means doing nice things for other people changes your brain in ways that make you feel better.”
Being Kind Makes You Healthier
People who volunteer in the community and are charitable to others often experience lower stress levels and improved overall health. According to Happier Human, statistics show that people who are kind have less physical pain, get better quality sleep, and exercise more.
Being Kind Builds Self-esteem
As parents we are always looking for ways to build self-esteem in our kids. Helping others and being generous with our time and talents can actually help build self-esteem because when we help someone, we feel like we have value and a purpose. We are also letting someone else know they are important and mean something to us.
Being kind doesn’t have to be time consuming, expensive, or hard work. Simple acts of kindness can show someone we care and have benefits to us as well. Open the door for someone, pick up litter as you pass, send a note or card in the mail, or simply smile at others and you are spreading kindness. Our kids follow our lead in how we treat others and kindness will become natural for them over time.
Sarah Lyons is a mom of 6 and has been published in Pregnancy and Newborn Magazine, Creative Child and over 150 other parenting publications.
